Words reflect our thinking. If we rephrase our words, we also reprogram our thinking.
- Limiting “best known result” – If we too much limit our thinking by setting the best possibility that ever has existed in our reality, we may not be able to think broadly and imaginatively. We hamper our own and the growth of others.
- Impossibilities “It can’t be done”, “I can’t afford it” – easy trap to fall into is to say something can’t be done. It has never been about it can be done. Much more productive is to ask how it can be done?
- Negatives – swear words and in general anything that evokes the negative feelings. It can also be the tone of voice, i.e. yelling or screaming.
- Distractions “I’ll do this later…” – effective way to decide is to ask yourself, when is this?
To practice these, notice the thoughts, write the thought down, strikethrough and replace it with smarter way to say it.