From everything what I’ve read so far, I’ve summarized the growth mindset into sets of “how” –questions. I.e. “how can that be done” or “how can I do it”?
I like “how”, because its puts me to think.
Currently I am living in a long distance relationship, which makes me to think how we can be together in the future.
It’s much more productive to ask how in this kind of situation than settle with some answer. Life is up to us to figure out and with how we can.
Keep asking yourself how and write everything down that comes up with it. In time you will at least understand what you don’t understand in order to understand. Eventually you’ll understand how, or die trying.